Tuesday, February 15, 2005

Me too...

Another Valentine gone by- for me- its just like any other day- but I do like to see, hear , read all abt it- I like the idea of people expressing love- any day- anytime, anyhow…and if the speciality of the day motivates somebody to do something specific for love- fine.. watching people happy in Love makes me feel good abt life…

Everybody who has heard abt our drive to B’lore are wondering- wow! That’s really something- ..and all I can say- He has done so much more…such acts are not isolated gestures, it is just the continuation of a persitent feeling, it is spontaneous and just happens…

And I say, this is just one of the many other things…there are so many other instances- I could go on and on…it may not be about cards, gifts, chocolates or flowers…but it sure means Love, caring, sharing, respecting, cherishing, adoring…

It also means, criticizing, correcting, guiding, mending,

It does not mean there are no fights, arguments, sulks, tantrums…
But it also means apologizing, making amends, smiling etc…etc :-)

It has been 16 years now, and we have seen many things together…bad times, good times, pains, sorrows, fears, anger, mischief, laughter…

I don’t want to think of him as separate from me- He is me and I’m him, and this has nothing to do with either of us not having an individuality of our own..it just means having an enhanced personality..

He has his likes, dislikes, principles, I have mine…but that does not make us belong to different teams…

I am not concerned about words , days- all I know is he is my life…if He is with me, then everything is worthwhile, if not then there is no meaning to anything...

And I pray to The Almighty to please take care of him…look after him….be good to him and I’ll be fine…Thank you God…

6 comments:

SeaSwallowMe said...

hey ardra ... best wishes for a wonderful life together :)

Maltova said...

Ayyo ammachi is going goofy talkin abt appachan!!! what is this, eh?

Finally the bug has gotten to you too Ardra :)). May god preserve and enrich this relationship you share and cherish dearly.

Warm Regards

El enigma said...

aaawwww....so cute! :)

wishing u both the very best that life has to offer!!! it's so good to hear people so many years into marriage and still going strong :)

enig!

Ardra said...

Comments:
Ananth P said...
Amen :)

1:22 AM
Nithya Swaminathan said...
Beautiful...:)
You guys make such a lovely couple... Wish you both several more happy years ahead...:)

-Nithya

2:08 AM
Doh said...
Ardra!
That was a very nice blog!
Here's wishing you both muchos love and happiness !

5:44 AM

Megha said...

Ardra, that was so wonderful to read! It sounds like the sixteen years have made your love that much more precious and special. Congratulations and the very best wishes for many many decades of togetherness for the both of you!

Akruti said...

Thats why they say love is the beautiful expression which can be used with or without words,i guess both of u have those silent expressions,u neednot say how much u care but then it is shown in ur actions,u r small deeds for eachother:))
godbless u r family with lots o f love